HumaN(ever)s understand eachother?

Human mind is a fast paced pendulum swinging between "I have it the worst" to "Nobody understands me". Yes nobody gets one like their own self.No matter how hard you try to butter it up this is the bitter truth.

On the other hand the "I always have it the worst" thought crumbles when you face even worse situations in your life and realise you were  doing good or it wasn't that worse of a situation in the past.Everyone has it the worst for God doesn't discriminate when it comes to suffering. It can be at different scales in different stages of life but guess what grief isn't that fancy to measure it out. Grief is universal and suffering is survival.

One must feel at ease with their own self at first.Be your own safe place that even when the whole world is against you , your heart knows you the best and stays by your side.Because "I understand you" is a very fragile term that can break at any moment and when it does make sure it's you who will mend your own self before you crumble into pieces.

Nobody can live your life on behalf of you. Similarly noone can understand you if not for your own self. The saying, "Imagine being in their shoes" is a myth.But some may try, they may atleast try to imagine being in your shoes and make sure to cherish them.People can only imagine but never feel it as you do for imagination isn't reality.Hence always make sure you understand yourself the best even when no one else does!

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