Humans after all!

 Why be nonchalant when we are Humans after all? People being nonchalant when joy visits them occassionally and when grief stays forever.

Why this recent trend with nonchalant , especially among the youth? We only complain over the fact the they are nonchalant but never try to dig deeper into it. People often try deliberately to hide behind this facade of nonchalance when the words of society gets deafening. But little do they realise society would judge anyway. Like now, how we question about their nonchalance.

If you ask me humans always tend to seek any false comforts to hide from grief. A coping mechanism, and nonchalance is one among them. Sometimes pretending not to express something may mean the strong need to express everything.Yet they sometimes fail to understand the aftermath of it. Who are we trying to fool? Is it the society or our own self? Training your mind to be not affected by things that have pierced you deep in the soul?!

Let yourself feel things. Be overwhelmed with joy ,cry over your sorrow for that will be your only proof of existence. Feel things deeply for you are Human after all and hence meant to be.

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